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The Walking Dead - Self Help - Review and Discussion

10 Nov 2014

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So the cat’s out of the bag. The mystery behind the mullet was finally mentioned. That, and Eugene confessed that he had made up the whole story about having a cure to the walker disease.

But first, priorities being priorities, let’s address the mullet. We don’t waste much time before Glenn asks Eugene the question many fans were waiting for someone to ask: “Why the hair?”  Eugene makes a connection to Samson – the biblical figure whose strength was in his hair. Maggie later brings up the Samson reference. She tells Eugene that she thinks he has the haircut that he does because he’s not the person people think he is, and that Eugene doesn’t want people to know who he is.

And that segues nicely into the big secret that Eugene has been carrying around, and that is that he made up the story about knowing how to cure what’s wrong with the world. This was a pretty big reveal, as I counted eight people, plus Bob (as Eugene was listing them off), who have died trying to get Eugene to Washington.

In the comic books, Eugene’s story is also a hoax.  There was the possibility that the TV series might have gone in a different direction, but I didn’t believe it would, mainly because I didn’t see how this storyline could be true. This is not a show about science. Aside from the flimsy explanation from the CDC’s Dr. Jenner about the virus causing part of the brain to restart after death, there’s very little scientific logic to this story. Instead, we have a tale about the dead walking the earth and how people are coping – a tale of human nature with spiritual overtones and religious symbolism. The resolution, in my opinion, has to be spiritual in the end.  It has to be about people, not about science.

We also learned from Eugene that he had sabotaged the bus. I guess we can assume that he intentionally shot their own truck last season as well.

Coping Mechanisms

The episode Self Help is a powerful study of the coping mechanisms of two characters who have remained largely unexplored up until now.

Looking at the coping mechanisms is an interesting lens to examine the character stories. They’ve all seen their lives uprooted to the extent of having most of their loved ones killed in horrific ways. They’ve lost their old lives, and they’re facing a new world where people are murderers, cannibals, and rapists, and are arguably the biggest threat they face. While all of the coping mechanisms that we have seen have had their own unique angle, many intersect in small or larger ways with those of other characters (for example, both Hershel and Bob turned to alcohol, and both the Governor and Daryl keeping body parts as souvenirs).

In this episode we see Abraham, on the verge of losing control to his need to carry out the mission of getting Eugene to Washington at all costs. With the aid of flashbacks, we witness the critical moments that shaped how Abraham had gotten to the place he's at now. We also see how Eugene’s low self-confidence and his fear that no one would help him drove him to lie to the group.

While both Eugene’s and Abraham's approaches are new to us, in some aspects they both parallel coping mechanisms that we have seen before.  We hear from Eugene that he believes that without his mission, he has no value to the group. He confides that his talents are that he’s smart and he’s a good liar. While he doesn’t have the courage or the fighting skills that most of the survivors have been shown to have, he capitalizes on the talents that he does have.

By using random facts he knows, and by lying, Eugene is able to convince other people to protect him. Eugene’s actions mirror those of Dr. Edwards, whom we met last week. Like Eugene, Edwards is someone who isn't strong enough to make his own way in the world, but uses the skills he has (in his case medicine) to make himself valuable to the group so that they will protect him. Like Eugene, he also uses deception to keep his place when it is threatened.

Through Abraham's flashbacks we see a very violent man smashing a living person’s head in an attempt to save his family. The violence, however, scares his wife and children and they sneak off, and they’re killed. The thing that stops Abraham from killing himself, that gives him a way of coping with the truth, is having a mission. And this becomes an obsession.

Abraham’s backstory took me back to season two. It reminded me in some ways of Shane’s story. Shane had a surrogate family to protect, and this drove him to violence. His night scavenging for medical supplies with Otis, in an effort to save Carl, was the catalyst that turned him into a killer. We learned that after the world had fallen apart, he had clung to the mission of saving Lori and Carl as a way of making sense of it all. In season two he tells Rick that with everything falling apart, having Lori and Carl in his life was the one good thing. “I didn’t keep Lori and Carl alive. They kept me alive.”

In rewatching the series this summer, it occurred to me that Shane never would have become as obsessed as he had, had the world stayed normal. For Shane, having the mission to protect Lori and Carl was as much a coping mechanism for dealing with the loss of the world as was believing the walkers could be saved for Hershel, or holding on to the idea of staying civilized for Dale.

Other Thoughts:

- The firetruck had a really cool factor. Who else was extremely disappointed (like levels of disappointment you would expect from a 12-year-old level) when it didn’t get further than it did?

- Eugene watching Abraham and Rosita from the Self-Help section was funny.  Seriously though, Rosita must be tired of always being objectified by someone. She must be the most patient person in the world.

- Best quote of the night goes to Tara when she tells Eugene: “Welcome to the human race, asshole.”

- Runner up for best quote of the night goes to Abraham: “Every direction is a question.” This works on a macro-level (there no clear path for these survivors) and a micro-level (they don't know where they'll find safe passage). It also hints at where Abraham’s mind is – he doesn’t want to have to think too much about things, because that will mean facing what’s happened.

- Maggie had the perfect opening to confess that she’s worried about Beth and is concerned that they’re leaving Beth behind by going to Washington when she was telling Glenn she feels guilty about moving on. We just needed a few more words ...

- Back in seasons three and four, we used to see messages left behind that spoke to people’s desperation to meet up with loved ones. Now we have messages such as, “Sick inside. Let them die.” The change in tone I think speaks to a hardening of those who are left.

- As the group was arguing about whether to continue through a massive horde of walkers, there’s a sign on the side of the road that reads, “Buckle Up. It’s the law.” The sign struck me as ironic since, first, the episode began with a bus crash, and second, there’s clearly nothing resembling law anymore.

- Who else was really disgusted by the idea of them drinking toilet water? Yes, they were boiling it first, and they’ve probably done much worse things, but still. This was the “yuck” detail of the week.

- I learned something new. Eugene’s haircut, and apparently mullets in general, have another name: the “Tennessee top hat.” I never knew that.

- While I was firmly on the side of Glenn, Maggie, and everyone else who thought Abraham was insane to want to continue through the horde of walkers, I wondered why they were not discussing using some of the camouflage techniques that we know they know. Several times the group has successfully smeared themselves with zombie innards to blend in. Glenn and Rick did it back in season one, so we know Glenn at least was aware of this trick. The other technique was Michonne’s use of pet walkers. This is one of those things that strain credibility with an audience. You can’t have your characters learn something one week and then forget it the next because forgetting it is more convenient for the plot. It’s a common problem with TV writing, but it’s the details that often separate the good shows from the bad.

But with that said, I thought this was very good episode. While not as emotionally heavy as some others – and that’s not always a bad thing – it moved the plot forward and offered character exploration of a couple of character who have mostly remained mysteries up to this point. Plus, it had a couple of jaw-dropping reveals.

I’m going to close this out with a few questions. First, where do you think Abraham goes from here? Is this a turning point where Abraham, like Shane, goes down a dark path? Do we see a broken Abraham? Or does he find new strength and purpose from facing his pain, like Carol or Bob?

Second question is regarding Eugene’s comment that he believes Washington holds the best chance for survival. Do you agree? Where would you head in a zombie apocalypse?


About the Author - Chris684
Chris684
Chris is a New Englander with a background in print and digital media, who currently earns a living by making web and technology products easier to use. She has a weakness for TV characters who are 'dark and twisty' (to quote Meredith Grey) and reviews The Walking Dead, Legends, Halt and Catch Fire, and Dig for SpoilerTV.
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35 comments:

  1. Chandra M. Jordan10 November 2014 at 16:22

    I'm just SO disappointed with where they've taken Glenn and Maggie, seriously. it was almost flippant, the way they've brushed off abandoning the group and NO mention of Beth. I mean seriously, where did they think Daryl and Carol went? They know they're not with Gareth or weren't, and they know Daryl had clues of who took Beth and knowing Daryl for two years (it was Glenn who preached family to Daryl back w/ the Merle thing) they'd know that Daryl didn't just take off to go for a ride either; if they'd stopped and thought they'd put two and two together and think maybe he went after Beth...I don't get why they just left, I don't like it. I think they stuck them with Abe and his group as a way to engage the audience to that group too but tbh, if the show were just them I'd tune out. I'm glad we got the insight that we did, but it feels empty without Team Rick.

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  2. Patric Westerling10 November 2014 at 16:40

    Now that Abe's obsession has been broken, hopefully we get a reunion at or just before the end of MSF.

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  3. When they came across the herd of walkers blocking the path to D.C. it was hard to see what was there. Looked to me like the "herd" (ironically) was massed around what used to be a cattle feed lot.

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  4. It was strange, really, the way Maggie talked about feelings of guilt but didn't mention her only blood relative who is left. That's definitely a flaw in the writing. It's out of character that she wouldn't show more worry.

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  5. True. I'm fine with decision not to try it. I just think it was odd that they only option they discussed was fighting their way through it, rather than trying to camouflage themselves.


    Good call on it being a cattle feed. I was trying to figure out what that was. I was thinking farm and fertilizer, but then I was also thinking sewage from the way they were describing the smell? I'm a city girl, so I wasn't really sure what that was.

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  6. I don't how I feel about the episode. On the one side, I enjoyed it but on the other, I did not.
    It has allowed us to get to know better Abe's team + Tara but at the end, it was a complete waste of time.


    Thanks for the explanation about the comparison between Samson and Eugene. I did not get that get at first

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  7. I thought this episode was well-done (agree, the fire truck was AWESOME -- really wanted that to go somewhere!), and I've really loved the deadpan yet almost endearing way Josh McDermitt plays such an odd character. I also appreciated all the added backstory. That said, though, I've never really warmed up to Abraham and his bullheaded, manic, high-testosterone approach -- even now, having seen the coping mechanism behind his "mission." But that's just my own personal bias, and not the fault of this episode.

    What I am finding increasingly weird (and unrealistic, and distracting!) is Maggie's complete refusal to mention ANYTHING about her last remaining relative ... and vice versa. This is either a huge hiccup in the writing, or some deeper conflict that I'm hoping they plan to explain this season. I also didn't care for how Glenn and Maggie were basically "tacked on" to this last-minute road trip to provide a connection point to Rick's gang. I totally get that Gimple favors dividing up the group to tell deeper stories, but the way this whole decision came about was just clunky. Personally, I'm hoping they'll all head straight back to the core team!



    I did think Tara got some really nice humanizing moments, and I also liked how Abraham's reopening hand wound was used as a metaphor. And while I knew about Eugene's big reveal from the comics, it was cool how they chose to have him disclose it before the group had gone more than 20 miles. It's really interesting how they're exploring such a range of human reactions and coping strategies this season. And to answer your question Chris, if I found myself in a zombie apocalypse, I don't know if I'd worry about a city/destination so much -- I'd get my group living up high, or even floating on a large anchored boat, where walkers can't easily follow. Because that's just the kind of wuss I am. :)

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  8. I agree with you James -- I actually couldn't make out the herd at all. Took their word for it. :)

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  9. Thanks for commenting. Some of these episodes connect more with me than others. I'm not expecting this one to make my top 5 or 10 list for the season, but I was pleasantly surprised that the Eugene reveal happened so quickly and I found the Abraham backstory interesting.

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  10. I agree with a lot of this. Abraham has been hard to warm up to because we haven't seen anything resembling depth to him yet. I'm hoping this development will open up new avenues.


    Agree with you on Maggie. I was giving that a pass for a while - figuring some of the conversations about Beth were happening off screen - but the lack of a mention here just felt odd. I was also expecting to hear a little from her about Bob, considering she had been in a very intense situation with only Bob and Sasha very recently.


    Glad you mentioned the hand wound. I meant to mention that in the review but I think I forgot. I liked the way they cut back and forth from the present wound to the flashbacks. It especially worked because he got that wound beating someone to death.

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  11. The episode was just ok. Definitely the weakest episode of the season.

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  12. Yes, I'm hoping they turn around too. I can't image they would do anything else now.

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  13. About the hand, I also wondered if it becomes so infected he ends up having it amputated, taking the place of the one-handed Rick of the comics.

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  14. I loved this episode! The writing has improved immensely this season.

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  15. Great review, Chris! My takes:
    1. Samson. What always intrigued me most about that Bible story was how his hair grew back, and with it his strength, and he sacrificed himself by standing in the doorway of the temple and knocking it down, killing himself and the Philistines (the bad guys, in this case).Will Eugene eventually sacrifice himself?
    2. The revelation was predictable, but it was interesting that Eugene decided to tell all just after receiving validation from Tara and from Maggie. He's beginning to feel comfortable being himself.
    3. Yes, Dr. Edwards. Eugene is like him for selfishly allowing innocent people to die so he himself can keep up a ruse to protect himself. Eugene is also like Father Gabriel for being a coward. I predict both of these men will eventually redeem themselves. Don't know about Dr. Edwards, though.
    4. Love your comparison of Abraham's violence to that of Shane. The apocalypse brought it out, and rather early on, too.
    5. Cool that you rewatched from the beginning. I'd like to do that, too.
    6. I liked the episode.

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  16. The Hand :
    I wondered that myself. He did say he cut it 'last nite' during the Termites Termination. There could be a couple of ways to look at this.
    Blood Mixing: from various walkers that he's killed AND / OR from the inntial cut - Tainted Meat.
    They made a point of showing Abe's hand in many shots - I can't help but think that it will play out somehow.


    I also wondered about Eugene's spilling the beans. . .
    I know that it was truely time to fess up, but at his mention of Father G, I wondered if he thought:
    FG did a HORRIBLE thing and they (Rick n fam) have in a sense forgiven him. FG letting so many of his flock die, and essentially useless in the killing of walkers ...... Very similar to Eugene (minus the cure lie). If they can 'forgive' FG, could they forgive Eugene as well ?

    Agree w your Best Line's ! I actually laughed out loud !

    As always Chris - I enjoyed your review - I always look forward to reading them !! Keep up the awesome job

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  17. I have to make another comment, kind of offhanded, but with the U.S. elections just past, I found amusing Eugene's comment about D. C. being the best chance for survival. I mean, after all the crowing about which politicians are too tied to Washington, the best chance for political survival seems to be trying to DISTANCE onself from D. C.

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  18. Do you wonder, maybe, if they'll eventually reveal this to be Maggie's "coping mechanism" when it comes to her last living relative? I mean, just ignoring it 100%.
    I could actually be sympathetic to something like that, and it could be pretty powerful to the story (especially depending on the outcome with Beth, or if anything happened to her own husband).

    The only odd thing I don't buy is that those closest to her (like Glenn) aren't noticing this odd blankness and questioning Maggie about it specifically. As you point out, he had the perfect opening to bring it up!

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  19. Lot of great comments here. I definitely think Eugene can and will be redeemed. He seems like he's felt guilty for a while and confessed on his own. I hold out hope for Gabriel too, although he seems like he's carrying around so much guilt, I wouldn't be surprised to see him sacrifice himself before long. I'm not sure what to think of Edwards yet.

    I liked that Eugene seems to be bonding with the group. As you pointed out, he confessed after Tara and Maggie offered him redemption. Being part of the group seems to be key to redemption.

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  20. It would be nice if there was more planned with Maggie, but the cynical side of me thinks that this is just the writers not seeing things the same way as viewers. We had the conversation between Maggie and Daryl about Beth in the container, and my guess is the thought was that was sufficient.

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  21. He really needs to just stop hitting people so that the hand can heal. Your comment reminded me of TDog in season 2, feverish from infection and predicting that he was going to get taken down by a scrape.

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  22. Good review. In the Talking Dead Michael Cudlitz explained that the family of Abraham was not just threatened but also raped by people they knew before all this happened. Rick has also gone through much shit but Abraham experienced the worst thing ever in this show. I guess Abraham could drive completely crazy now. Abraham reminds me most of Morgan who was in season 3 obsessed by the thought to "clear". Rosita seems to know about Abraham's past. She was about to use her gun to protect Eugene.

    By the way, Michael Cudlitz and Josh McDermitt made not just an awesome performance in this episode of TWD but were also awesome in one of the best episodes of Talking Dead ever. They're two very sympathic, entertaining and funny guys. Can't wait to see them playing their transformed characters. There's a lot of potential.

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  23. Just Plain Odd
    Last time she was seen :
    She Was Alive
    She Was Taken

    They have all been lost in one form or another and they have stopped at nothing to get the lost back and yet nothing with Beth. . . . . . Much-less being Maggie's sister. Is it just plain 'ol denial ?

    I am hoping that there is a point or it's clarified.

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  24. I've been thinking that the inaction was due to them having no trail to follow. When Maggie and Glenn were taken by the Governor they had Michonne showing up with a plan. Remember that they abandoned Andrea at the farm too because they didn't think they'd find her alive. And as soon as Daryl caught sight of the car, he and carMy issue is more that Beth's absence should come up in conversation more often, especially with Maggie. I guess they've been busy though.

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  25. Thanks for the comments. I'm also expecting that DC would be like Atlanta: lots of people = lots of walkers. But Eugene's comments have me curious now.

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  26. Eugene's social impairment would make it difficult for him to understand how his actions affect others, but now he seems to be getting it. This group is the best place for him to be.

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  27. I read somewhere that those guys Abraham killed were trying to rape his wife and kids...Is that correct?

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  28. I wonder now what are they gonna do. Go back to the church or go to DC and find that haven Eugene was talking about ?

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  29. That wasn't shown in the episode. Debsterforever (comment on this thread) said that Michael Cudlitz (the actor who plays Abraham) was on The Talking Dead and gave that backstory, so maybe he was talking about something that's discussed in a future episode or was in the comics. I haven't had a chance to watch The Talking Dead from this week yet.

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  30. In the comics Abraham's wife and daughter were raped while they forced his son to watch. When he comes back from scavenging he realizes what happened and kills the guys. I wonder if he is going to tell Rick what happened (like in the comics). Also I think they are going to probably going to tone it down and have only his wife raped.

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  31. I think this episode was ok. I like Abraham but I think this backstory could have been developed better.
    Also I'm getting tired of the group being separated.

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  32. Yeah, the. Instant separation of the group every time we turn around has ran its course and is now, extremely annoying.

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  33. Even stranger is remembering that Maggie was willing to move mountains to find Glenn post-prison -- she was almost as single-minded and driven as Abraham. And she had very little to go on. So they've established that she's not remotely unfeeling or in denial when it comes to a family member she loves. Just makes it feel even weirder that these two sisters don't even mention each other.

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  34. Who was the actress playing Abraham's wife? It looked like Rosita to me. And how old is she (supposed to be) anyway? I am icked by her and Abraham...
    Were the walkers free? It looked like they were stuck in lines, like at a fence or on wire or something.

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  35. Turn Around:

    Reunite the Grimes Family and
    Stay AWAY from that herd !

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