Until they both start displaying more emotional maturity they're not perfect for each other or anyone else. However, their dysfunction makes their scenes together interesting to watch.
Oh I'm not saying they don't need to grow up... like a LOT in order for this to work!
But when you break it down the fact that they can both be comfortable in their skins and about who they are even in their dysfuction to me undelines their potential. And I love that!!!
So until they get there as you said: interesting to watch!!! (and you'll allow me to also add "fun" to the "interesting" of yours.)
I get (and agree with) most of what you're saying but I'm not sure Wade is comfortable in his own skin. He has a big chip on his shoulder about status. Whether it's his "war hero" brother or any of the established men that Zoe has spent time with (the vet, the lawyer, etc.) they all seem to get under his skin very easily because Wade doesn't feel comfortable with who he is or where he's at in life. That's where the self-improvement kick is coming from as well as his desire to start his own business.
Wade, either consciously or subconsciously, seems to want to better himself for Zoe but he's not there yet.
i agree, but who wouldn't have that problem with their status if they went through that. everyone has their own issues, mommy or daddy issues, financial issues, abuse or assault issues, ect and they're all valid. So i think he has every right to feel the way he does about his life. but he does need to see what he has to do to be with someone like zoe. he's only ever been with one night stand types and i don't think he's ever felt how he does about. so it's new for him. he needs some growth there.
Oh also, sorry for the quality on this. I filmed it for people on the fan forum spoilers page who were dying to see it and never thought it would be on here lol. Don't have cable or dvr so work with what you go right?
Generally he is not comfortable in his own skin I agree... and I think that does stem from his insecurities and his dismissal of his self worth. But because of Zoe he's been more willing to try and reach his potential (and he is worth way more than what people tend to give him credit for). And when they are together, one on one, the two of them he can let his guard down and be himself. That's my point.
"But more often than not, he is willing to let her in, even if he doesn't want to."
True. Now if only Zoe would stop managing to somehow hurt his feelings every time he lets her in. Sometimes that girl needs a satellite dish to pick up people's signals.
*nods* I guess this is why I always understand where Wade is coming from with his frustration. She's so zeroed in on Gerge she's completelly and totally unaware of what's going on around her and doesn't seem to care until she has to deal with the reprecautions.
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Nothing new here. Zoe and Wade are still emotional train wrecks.
ReplyDeleteI'm swooning over the way he's looking at her.... they're reaching real OTP status for me.... we are in dangerous waters here people!
ReplyDeleteYes, no argument.... but they're so perfect with eachother....
ReplyDeleteUntil they both start displaying more emotional maturity they're not perfect for each other or anyone else. However, their dysfunction makes their scenes together interesting to watch.
ReplyDeleteOh I'm not saying they don't need to grow up... like a LOT in order for this to work!
ReplyDeleteBut when you break it down the fact that they can both be comfortable in their skins and about who they are even in their dysfuction to me undelines their potential. And I love that!!!
So until they get there as you said: interesting to watch!!!
(and you'll allow me to also add "fun" to the "interesting" of yours.)
I get (and agree with) most of what you're saying but I'm not sure Wade is comfortable in his own skin. He has a big chip on his shoulder about status. Whether it's his "war hero" brother or any of the established men that Zoe has spent time with (the vet, the lawyer, etc.) they all seem to get under his skin very easily because Wade doesn't feel comfortable with who he is or where he's at in life. That's where the self-improvement kick is coming from as well as his desire to start his own business.
ReplyDeleteWade, either consciously or subconsciously, seems to want to better himself for Zoe but he's not there yet.
i agree, but who wouldn't have that problem with their status if they went through that. everyone has their own issues, mommy or daddy issues, financial issues, abuse or assault issues, ect and they're all valid. So i think he has every right to feel the way he does about his life. but he does need to see what he has to do to be with someone like zoe. he's only ever been with one night stand types and i don't think he's ever felt how he does about. so it's new for him. he needs some growth there.
ReplyDeleteOh also, sorry for the quality on this. I filmed it for people on the fan forum spoilers page who were dying to see it and never thought it would be on here lol. Don't have cable or dvr so work with what you go right?
ReplyDeleteGenerally he is not comfortable in his own skin I agree... and I think that does stem from his insecurities and his dismissal of his self worth.
ReplyDeleteBut because of Zoe he's been more willing to try and reach his potential (and he is worth way more than what people tend to give him credit for). And when they are together, one on one, the two of them he can let his guard down and be himself. That's my point.
"But more often than not, he is willing to let her in, even if he doesn't want to."
ReplyDeleteTrue. Now if only Zoe would stop managing to somehow hurt his feelings every time he lets her in. Sometimes that girl needs a satellite dish to pick up people's signals.
*nods* I guess this is why I always understand where Wade is coming from with his frustration. She's so zeroed in on Gerge she's completelly and totally unaware of what's going on around her and doesn't seem to care until she has to deal with the reprecautions.
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