Having summed up the season in Part 1: The Good, the Bad and the just plain Ugly we move on to the
fall out of the season finale. Many thanks for the comments to part 1. Please
keep them coming. I did say this pre-season ramble would be in 3 parts. Well I
write too much, so it’s more likely going to be 4 or 5.
Whilst I am not spoiler free, this article is. No reference
is made to recent tweets or gossip…any comment on Season 8 content is speculation
only.
So, as we tread the path towards Season 8 we’re catching our
feet, tripping and falling on the emotional debris left around us from Shonda’s
verbal shoot out. Whatever you might feel about the finale (and for me it was a bit …meh) there’s no getting away from the
fact that things are a bit of a relationship mess for the doctors of Seattle
Grace Mercy West.
There’s only one place to start – Meredith and Derek. We’ve
had 7 seasons (and who knows how many years, because let’s face it the Grey’s
timeline is a mystery to all) of MerDer angst, trauma, relationship, affairs,
sex, heartache and finally happiness. There is very little this poor couple
haven’t been raked through and as the most significant, longest serving couple
on the show it’s been a tortuous journey for the viewer.
The opening of season 7 saw Meredith trying to control the
uncontrollable. Her best friend has weirded out with PTSD, her husband has
discovered ‘carpe diem’, she’s failing the psych test for surgery, she’s
miscarried a child and coating all of that she’s covering up her own trauma
demons. Derek, on the other hand, has not only rediscovered his love for
cutting, he’s living on adrenalin, feels an extraordinary compassion for Cristina,
and at the same time as knowing his wife could be a victim of early onset
Alzheimer’s, seems intent on keeping Meredith’s shooting trauma in his blind
spot.
This was not an easy puzzle to fix.
To be honest I’m having some trouble with Derek this season.
Maybe his faults have been in my blind spot for 6 seasons or maybe season 7 was
intended to be about his ascendancy to the moral high ground in the spirit of
carpe diem.
Now before all the MerDer’s go crazy at me, for what I’m
about to write, I tell you I’m a MerDer fan really. But I’m going to have a
negative moment.
(Feel free to throw bricks at me in the comments box!).
Let’s look at the evidence.
- His dangerous addiction to speeding down the highway, as if untouchable.
- After finding out about Meredith’s miscarriage, one hug and it’s all better. Really?
- The ‘I know what’s good for Cristina not you’ attitude. This storyline was one of the best this season except for one element - his lack of empathy for Meredith’s point of view and Meredith’s trauma. Which leads me to number…
- He completely ignores the fact that Meredith went through any trauma. Well, I shall defend him a little, on the basis that knowing Meredith, she probably downplayed it so much that it was hard to see she even went through a trauma. But Derek claims to know her well. And don’t get me started on his comments during surgery in “Disarm”.
- Lying to her about starting the trial…with Alex. And the smug grin when he says it was open to all the residents…
- Let’s adopt this baby. Don’t get me wrong, the baby is c.u.t.e. But he blindsided Meredith. How about a two-way conversation with her first?
- “Let’s get married.” Today, now, exactly this minute. Well, it’s for the baby after all. Emotional blackmail.
- “I don’t know how to raise a child with someone who doesn’t understand that there’s a right and wrong in the world.” Seriously? I hate to point out the irony to you Derek but Meredith’s name has always been Grey.
Now Meredith is complicit in all of this of course. She
spends too much time fixing others that she doesn’t fix herself. She doesn’t
see the healing that Derek is trying to do for Cristina. She’s too focussed on
doing the good thing, which is not necessarily the right thing and doing it
without thinking through the consequences 360 degrees. She doesn’t talk to her
husband. But does she deserve the Derek bruised ego?
Am I wrong about Derek? Did he have good reason to behave as
he did? Did you see things differently? Do guys see things differently?
So where did this leave us at the end of the season.
Meredith rode through all the issues like the trooper she is, calm in a crisis,
even to the point of taking the baby home and at least looking like the mother
she apparently now is. And because she rode out these issues it certainly feels
to me like the separation at the end is merely a time out. Getting some clean
air (literally in Derek’s case). Nothing about this shouts ‘divorce’. It is a
communication problem (as seems to be the sickness all Grey’s couples suffer
from).
Meredith has failed to see the deeper implication of her
tampering with the trial for Derek – I want to shout at her “woman, he’s trying
to find a cure for his wife…that would be you…he can’t bear to face the
prospect of losing you to this despicable disease”.
Derek has failed to see the connections Meredith has made
between Adele and Richard and Ellis, the compassion, the second-hand guilt, the
need to repair what was broken. In her words, “it’s complicated”.
Neither of these issues is malignant. Both will fester for a
while. But all will be well…between them as a couple. I remain cautious
regarding whether the adoption will finally go through.
This is not the case for Cristina and Owen, who, in my
opinion, have set off on a one-way road with no roundabout. I’ve struggled with
these two as a couple, mainly because I can’t see the future for them. It is so much easier to see the future for Meredith and Derek or Callie and Arizona.
Cristina and Owen’s entire relationship has always been based around trauma,
either his, or hers. Their meeting was via an icicle in the gut and a stapled
thigh. Their courtship was plagued with PTSD violence. Their marriage was on
the back of one party operating with a gun pointed at her head and then
watching the other get shot. And we know how those ‘rush to the altar’ weddings
end in Grey’s don’t’ we? And once again a Grey’s couple have come down with a
case of communication cancer, an epidemic at SGMW. Whilst WE have known for at
least 6 seasons that Cristina does not want children, it seems that Owen has
either been living in ignorance, living in hope or operating with complacency
that he has the power to change her mind. None of those imply that he knows his
wife very well. Cristina has her part to play in this as well. It doesn’t take
much to realise that Owen is the kind of guy who would want a family. Both
couples Meredith/Derek and Callie/Arizona discussed this, both resolved it,
before a post-it white wedding marriage took place. Cristina and Owen fell into
marriage without the necessary conversation. So now Cristina is pregnant and
headed for an abortion.
Let’s take a minute to discuss birth control. In general it
seems that contraception is either not practised in Seattle or that there is
some creepy tampering of the condoms rife throughout Bailey’s clinic (be aware
Miranda, there could be a mini Eli cookin’). Some might say that if Cristina
really and truly did not want a baby she would have made it impossible to have
one following her previous accidental pregnancy. This may well be one way the
writers justify keeping the baby, but if it is, it’s a poor one. And then now
she is accidentally pregnant again will Meredith kick off at Cristina about her
‘baby without trying’?
In my view Cristina will not keep the baby and this will
mean Owen won’t keep her. She is focussed, principled and single minded. She
doesn’t change her mind about things. And she doesn’t want kids. It’s not a
case of protesting too much, she simply doesn’t want them. She is not Arizona,
who at least has empathy with kids and whose feeling around this subject was
simply not so strong. Cristina has no empathy and rock solid resolve. Being
true to her character means a termination. And then how will Meredith react to
that?
It is always possible that this is not the path the writers
will take, for whatever reason (and this is not the place to speculate on those
reasons). Shonda may decide that Cristina keeps the baby. Go back to the fire
station “I don’t care where we live. But you do. And I love you”. Cristina bent
for Owen. Having a baby is much different to buying an apartment but still
there is a sign. In order to carry a “keep the baby” story arc though Shonda
needs her best writers to pull it off. Cristina as a mother is out of
character. To make it ‘in character’ will take an immense story, with some awesome
story telling. That’s not to say it can’t be done, but Season 7 has seen some
character writing seriously misfiring.
Cristina has other loose ends to tidy up amongst her marital
problems. Her cardio career is dive-bombing as her surgical arrogance has yet
to peak. The choice she is presented with will be keep the baby or fix her
career. And my money is on the career.
So it’s over to you folks now. Join in below. Let me know
what you think. Remember, mine is just an opinion and I love to hear yours. Also, if I've missed something in the diagram let me know.
Part 3 (Callie/Arizona and The Alex Hub) will be up soon.
The above article
makes reference to the difficult and controversial topic of abortion.
Speculation and discussion around what action a character may take with an
unwanted pregnancy is merely to understand how that particular character, as
written and characterised, might behave in such a situation.
No personal opinion on
the rights or wrongs of abortion is intended nor should be inferred.
